Anna & Esther: A Pet Therapy Team in the Making

Comfort, care, and companionship—offered by a thanatologist and her giant, gentle helper

  • Thanatology & community health professional
  • MA in Thanatology (CUNY Brooklyn College – in progress)
  • Volunteer bereavement support caller (Accent Care Hospice)
  • Trained end-of-life doula
  • Future MSW student (Liberty University)
  • Working toward grief & bereavement therapist licensure
  • Guided by compassion, dignity, and the belief that no one—human or animal—should face death alone
Preparing for Real Visits with Confidence and Compassion

This week’s lesson, Unit 7: Putting It All Together, marks a turning point in our journey. After learning the foundations of animal-assisted therapy, infection control, and teamwork with facilities, this unit helps us envision what an actual visit will look like, from the moment we pack our bags to the time we leave the facility.

For Esther and me, this feels like the moment where training meets heart. Everything we’ve practiced, gentle greetings, reading body language, infection control, and respectful communication, now comes together as we prepare to step into real-world settings, such as hospices and nursing homes.

🧺 What to Bring on a Visit

Pet Partners reminds handlers to think ahead and come prepared. That means bringing all the essentials for safety, comfort, and connection.

Our visit bag checklist:
  • Fresh water and a clean bowl
  • Treats (only if permitted by the facility)
  • Soft grooming brush
  • Waste bags and wipes
  • Hand sanitizer
  • Esther’s trading cards to help spark conversation
  • A special toy that’s used only during visits
  • Clean collar, harness, and leash
  • Closed-toe shoes and professional, neat attire

Being prepared isn’t just about organization; it’s about respect. Every clean leash, every sanitized hand, every calm greeting helps create trust and comfort for the people we meet.

Ready for kindness, one gentle visit at a time
🐾The Visit Snapshot

In a Pet Partners example story, Kate and Sebastian (a mini horse therapy team) complete their first visit to a retirement home. Their day begins with a quiet check-in with staff, a quick review of who they’ll be seeing, and a gentle entrance into the first resident’s room.

Each small moment in their visit, from offering sanitizer to reading residents’ cues and knowing when to step back, models the mindfulness and professionalism that therapy teams bring to every encounter.

Esther and I practice the same skills during our mock visits. Before we enter the room, I check in with her. If her tail loosens and her breathing is calm, she’s ready. If she leans into me or looks away, I know to pause. These tiny check-ins are what make our partnership strong.

Greeting new friends. Communication is everything
Calm, Clean, and Compassionate

A significant part of this unit focuses on infection control and professionalism, two key aspects that demonstrate respect for the people we visit. Handwashing before and after contact, avoiding shared bedding, and keeping our equipment clean aren’t just rules; they’re acts of care.

Each visit is an opportunity to bring comfort, safety, calmness, and compassion. That’s the heart of therapy work: meeting people where they are, with empathy and presence.

During training, Esther practiced calmly approaching mobility aids, such as walkers and wheelchairs. Safety comes first; every greeting should be slow, gentle, and respectful of personal space
Looking Ahead

As we are near the end of the Handler Course, I can feel how much we’ve both grown. Esther’s confidence and calm presence are deepening with each mock visit, and I’m learning to slow down, observe, and truly listen, both to her and to those we’ll one day serve.

We’re almost ready to take the next step: the evaluation that will mark our transition from training to service.

It’s exciting, a little nerve-wracking, and significant, because this isn’t just a certification. It’s the beginning of the work we were meant to do together.

Almost at the end of our Handler Course! Each week has brought new lessons in patience, safety, and partnership. Esther and I have grown so much together; soon, we’ll be ready to take our evaluation and begin our journey as an official therapy team. 🐾
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